Love is one thing that has been expressed in many ways; it has been described and interpreted in numerous ways both by saints and villains. Sometimes you hear of some instances of love like Romeo and Juliet and you are moved with emotions close to tears; at other times you hear love stories like that of Samson and Delilah and you freeze with anxiety and fright. The question here is what kind of love is Delilah love for Samson?
“Afterward it happened that he loved a woman in the Valley of Sorek, whose name was Delilah. And the lords of the Philistines came up to her and said to her, “Entice him, and find out where his great strength lies, and by what means we may overpower him, that we may bind him to afflict him; and every one of us will give you eleven hundred pieces of silver.” Judges 16:4-5 (NKJV)
Samson fell into the category of men who could do anything for the women they “love”. In his first love attempt, the father of the lady tricked him and it end up in catastrophe. His search for love continued and when he met Delilah, he devoted himself to be a good lover despite the apparent danger; however Delilah could not resist the love for money against the love for Samson.
Delilah plotted schemes for the Philistines to catch Samson. Thrice she failed to trap him and questioned Samson’s love. – Judges 16:15. (Great demonic deceit), I have always wondered why Samson was so daft that he could not see through Delilah evil plots; we must never toy with demonic schemes.
“So Delilah said to Samson, “Please tell me where your great strength lies, and with what you may be bound to afflict you.” And Samson said to her, “If they bind me with seven fresh bowstrings, not yet dried, then I shall become weak, and be like any other man.” So the lords of the Philistines brought up to her seven fresh bowstrings, not yet dried, and she bound him with them. Now men were lying in wait, staying with her in the room. And she said to him, “The Philistines are upon you, Samson!” But he broke the bowstrings as a strand of yarn breaks when it touches fire. So the secret of his strength was not known. Then Delilah said to Samson, “Look, you have mocked me and told me lies. Now, please tell me what you may be bound with.” Judges 16:6-10 (NKJV)
How do you react to threats to your life? I have heard many stories of people who ignored danger signals until it is too late to do anything; they fail to deliver their lives from an avoidable danger. There are people who tolerated people who pointed guns at them several times. The “hunters” usually said it was just a joke until they became victims of horrible killers. People have ignored threats of knife crime until they lay still in the pool of their own blood.
“When Delilah saw that he had told her all his heart, she sent and called for the lords of the Philistines, saying, “Come up once more, for he has told me all his heart.” So the lords of the Philistines came up to her and brought the money in their hand. Then she lulled him to sleep on her knees, and called for a man and had him shave off the seven locks of his head. Then she began to torment him, and his strength left him. And she said, “The Philistines are upon you, Samson!” So he awoke from his sleep, and said, “I will go out as before, at other times, and shake myself free!” But he did not know that the Lord had departed from him. Then the Philistines took him and put out his eyes, and brought him down to Gaza. They bound him with bronze fetters, and he became a grinder in the prison. However, the hair of his head began to grow again after it had been shaven.” Judges 16:18-21 (NKJV)
A lot of people have been destroyed in domestic violence, office squabbles, and political intolerance etc, when they could have walked away. The Christian community is not speared of unholy plots against other fellows, for whatever reasons. Many believers have fallen victims of plots they apparently saw coming but ignored. It does not do anyone any good when the evil matures and results in horror. Why do they do it? Why do bullies thrive? Love? Do we need to raise Samson to marry Delilah?
I have heard “love” preachers who are as “blind” as Samson in his relationship with Delilah. Samson ignored the word of God in the first instance; various attempts to save him fell on deaf ears. “Flesh” ruled over him. He had a “love” preacher who destroyed his life. Sometimes people think they can love people more than God does (John 3:16). Today, a lot of people want to re-write the Bible in the name of love. There are demonic compromises that are destroying the church in the name of love; in many places people want to drag God into unrighteousness as if he is blind or has lost all his attributes. There are people who pray hard to “muscle” God into their mould of “anything-goes”; after all, prayers can do anything.
Samson lost his eyes, grinded at the mills as Philistine’s slave and died because he gave his love to an undeserving person. I was taught that when you make mistakes you seek to correct them. If you find yourself playing around threats to your life or well-being, keep off. If people have plotted against you (including “religious brethren”), if you kept quiet at the first attempt and then survive the second one, if you don’t do something about it, (at least tell God about it), you are at risk (High risk). If it happened to Samson, it may happen to you.
God loves you and wants all to go well with you. Commit you relationships to him; listen to him and handle things as he leads. God cannot mislead you. Don’t trust in the arm of the flesh and don’t allow the flesh to have dominion over you.
Scripture quotes are from http://www.biblegateway.com
- Run Samson Run (iprodigaldaughter.wordpress.com)
- Samson’s Dating Advice (pedrostories.wordpress.com)